``I'm not joking about cheating for three years...lol'' said Yuka Shinohara, 30, who lives in Nerima Ward. She is a housewife with outstanding style. She and her husband, who have been married for three years, currently have sex twice a week at night... My husband likes rough sex, where he puts emphasis on intensity and relies on force. I prefer to be more gentle and polite. It is better to have it done by